"I'm going to a dance and there will be perfect music for dancing."
Tonight is the school's Hallowe'en dance. Alice is so excited.
Often, people with Down syndrome don't get as much oral-motor feedback. Having a mirror at the table helps self-monitoring and fosters long term independence. It also reduces the nagging from us.
I forgot to take a picture today, but apparently Alice solved that herself by taking some selfies.
We found out about buddy walks the year that Alice was born. Buddy Walks are events to help raise awareness about Down syndrome and to involve our communities. Our local DS resource group runs a buddy walk and we've gone to nearly all of them since Alice was born.
It's a great big party and the kids really look forward to the event. There are some families and extended families there that number in the double digits. It's nice to see. On our second Buddy Walk, I made up a logo for our team, "Alice's Tea Party" and we've stuck with that. Somewhere, we still have a hat with the logo, but I couldn't find it. On the walk, the route was marked with signs with each of the team's names on them - what a nice surprise to see ours!
Alice had her first rehearsal for the Nutcracker today as a Holly Tree. She enjoyed it, as always and liked showing off how she was going to move her branches. Here, she is deservedly tired.
Alice had new ear tubes put in today. One of the joys of Down syndrome is tiny ear canals which do not drain well and harbor ear infections, which can lead to hearing loss. Putting in tubes mitigates that. It also mean ear plugs during bath time.
I underestimated Alice this week.
It's understandable. The past two weeks have not been exactly stellar for her - a lot of backsliding in behaviors. It's been frustrating.
On Tuesday, Alice went downstairs early, as usual and decided that she was going to help out. So she filled out the parent/teacher meeting form for Evie:
She really gave that her best effort. Nice. But that wasn't all.
She then made herself breakfast, which included getting a package of smoked salmon out of the fridge and cutting it open with scissors. She got out the cream cheese and a steak knife (so close!). She got out some gluten free bread. She did her best to spread the cream cheese on the bread and put on a small square of salmon.
If you asked me two weeks ago if she could do any of this, I probably would have just laughed.
I was wrong.